Tuesday, September 28, 2010

The Veggie Patch


Spring is here and that can mean only one thing - it's time to get outdoors and plant! The first spring of retirement has brought with it renewed enthusiasm for the garden - specifically the growing of healthy, organic, pest free vegetables. I anticipate creating delicious salads and sauces all of which are enhanced by the flavours of my home grown herbs! So after letting the ground lie fallow (with weeds) for the previous season, the sods of soil are tenderly turned, organically enriched, duly drenched and set for sowing. The seedlings are bought, carefully planted, diligently watered and methodically mulched. I wonder - will I reap the benefits in 6-8 weeks time or will my diligence and enthusiasm fade in the heat of the summer sun! My father had an impressive veggie patch and I remember him working in his singlet and shorts, pruning, watering, weeding and mulching. And I remember the fruits of his labour - delicious! I think aging is a bit like a veggie patch. As we age we can easily allow the weeds of discontent, regret and boredom to sink deep into our 'not so fallow' hearts, strangling out any opportunity for tender shoots to grow. We can become cynical and think that the world has nothing to teach us because we have 'seen' it all! We need to have the soil of our hearts stimulated with new ideas, interesting people and creative activities.
Our later years can then become a time of fruitfulness and of productivity, where we influence others and enrich the flavour of their lives.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Coming Home


One of the experiences in life that I seem to appreciate more as I age is 'coming home.' Recently I was in Brisbane for a few days visiting my sister. It was a great opportunity to enjoy each other's company. But I find that regardless of where I am or for how long I am away, the thought of 'coming home' excites me. I begin to anticipate the warmth and comfort of my own bed and the familiar surroundings of my own home. Surprisingly, this has not always been so. In past years, I would have 'looked forward' to loads of unpacking and washing; the stresses of supermarket shopping and the challenge of picking up the threads of the busy lives of my four children. And I would have fantasised about what it might be like to have had another week's holiday!
Now it seems 'Home' is my haven. It's where I feel most like 'me.'It says a lot about who I am. One of the things I love about my home is its openness and space. I love to be able to see outside from all rooms of the house and to be able to interact with friends and family whilst preparing meals. I love the fact that our home has space for grandchildren to play and for adults to connect over coffee. And I love the quietness of the surrounding countryside. Being home replenishes my soul.
But this is not my only home. My spiritual home has been prepared for me since the beginning of time. It is my place of rest in this life and the next. My spiritual home is where I find my security,significance and acceptance. This home has not been constructed by human hands but by the compassionate, merciful and loving hands of Jesus. As I grow older, I hope that the prospect of fully occupying such an incredible home fills me with joy and anticipation.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Happiness Meme

I have been tagged by my beautiful daughter-in-law in a Happiness Meme! Now if you are a baby boomer reading this - you may be thinking 'What the?" There are two words that I need to translate into 20th Century language so that I can actually respond to her request -'tag' and 'meme.' The first is easy - when you tag someone in a game - they then have to tag someone else. So the baton is passed to moi and I can then pass the baton on to another! Great - now 'meme' - any clues? According to Wikipedia its a set of ideas, cultural values etc that can be transmitted from one person to another in this case - 'Ten Things that Bring me Happiness'. So here they are:
1. Grandchildren
2. Watching my kids parent their kids
3. Having a house full of family and/or friends
4. Being challenged physically and mentally
5. Spending time with friends
6. Helping friends and family grow in their understanding of God
7. Adventurous holidays with my husband.
8. Swimming in the sea
9. Coffee on the back veranda - with a good book
10. Having the choice to decide what to do with my day!

So now I tag Shona to share the ten things that bring her happiness!